so it's 512 kbps till i die eh? thank you BT monopoly free to do as we please market.
Well it's not a monopoly for you at the moment. Other telcos are free to install their cabinet.
But if it's not economically viable what do you expect BT to do? If they install the cabinet they will make a loss on it and we'll have to carry the cost - in other words we'd be paying for you to have FTTC. I suggest you talk to your council and everyone in your area. See if it's possible to get some additional funding organising. Try and make that cabinet look more viable.
There's really no point getting all personal about it as has already been said. If BT can't afford to do it then likely no-one else can either. It's just economics.