I don't have music on settings.
I has been there for as long as I can remember - right back to iPod, because it is an EU requirement. 6th block of settings down, with Videos Photos & Camera etc - at the top.
I'm also not using music to listen.
Then check the settings for whatever app you are using - again, being an EU requirement, it will be there, unless it hands this off to Music settings (or doesn't let you disable, in which case it is your choice of app that is the issue).