if its still getting your husbands name on it then the account hasnt been switched over to your name correctly.
One of my friends lost her husband of 9 years to a heart attack and 2 years on she was still getting letters on his name even though they claimed the account was on hers.
I would ring support as early as possible in the morning around 8ish and chances are u will get through to an English call center.
If they still don't sort it ask to get put through to retentions and they will do anything to keep u as a customer, just explain the situation and await and outcome.
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