As I understand it, emails send successfully sometimes but not others and "ping smtp.idnet.com" and "traceroute smtp.idnet.com" works sometimes but not others.
There has been some discussion about DNS and whether it's returning the correct IPv4 address. That can be easily taken out of the variables by using the IP address instead of the name. So I'd recommend following Pheasant's excellent SMTP guide but using both "telnet 212.69.40.22 25" and "telnet 212.69.40.22 587" instead of "telnet smtp.idnet.com 25". and by trying these telnets several times and at different times of the day and especially immediately after an email fails to send.
If those telnets work sometimes and fail other times, that would be most interesting. One possibility that's not been mentioned so far is a firewall that responds to what it thinks is abuse by blocking inbound connections from a particular IP address for a while. Such rate-limiting and blackhole techniques are often used to protect networks. There's little evidence to suggest this is the cause (although I think it's consistent with the reported symptoms) but it's a possibility to consider.
Edited by ashdown (Wed 15-Jun-22 20:51:56)