Thank you all for your comments. I am rethinking what I will do.
I'm not convinced by the BT Digital Voice adapters for this house. When I read about them I initially thought they were powerline adapters, so I could buy three of them and that would solve it. When I realised they were DECT extenders I could see it wouldn't work. The router is in a comms cabinet in a store room which was cut into a cliff, and has stone walls or cliff surrounding it. While some radio waves can escape through the door into the room opposite, DECT signals would need to get through the door and then turn left and travel along a long corridor lined with stone walls and then turn left again into a large room where the extender would have to be. It just wouldn't work here.
What you have pointed out is that I can use the phone port on the router exactly as I have used the phone port on the Vonage box. I have done this before by disconnecting all extension wiring from the BT master socket, then using a cable to connect the Vonage box to a BT extension socket (requires a cable with reversed wiring from RJ11 to BT431A plug).
So I will do the same and this will also solve the problem of keeping the phone number.
My first step is to change the wiring to make it easy to switch the extension wiring from the BT master socket to the router. The master socket has a splitter faceplate.
I will install a BT extension socket next to it, and remove the extension cables at the back of the master socket and run them into the extension socket.
I will buy a cable with a BT431A plug at each end and plug that into the master socket and the extension socket. I assume this one will do?
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07C7YZMFW/
At this point everything should work exactly as it does now.
I'm assuming BT will send a new router with a phone socket on the back. So when the changeover happens I simply unplug the cable from the BT master socket and plug it into the router.
Questions:
1. Do you think my plan will work? Have other people done it?
2. Is there any way to get BT to send the new router to a different address, as I cannot rely on receiving it before it gets sent back. Or what is the name of the router - perhaps I could buy one on eBay, it would be good to have a spare one anyway.
Edited by Growltiger (Sat 17-Jun-23 17:49:27)