Don't think you searched hard enough. Look in the System Tray as I directed you.
The point I'm making is that this Internet Gateway could appear, not in Start Menu,
even when you haven't enabled ICS, as you wouldn't if you were using a router, and that Internet Gateway could confuse a wireless device into trying to somehow think it's connecting to it instead of the router.
This happened to me with the Internet Gateway appearing on a non-ICS XP and confusing a wireless Vista. The symptoms were random discons of Vista, much like yours.
It's just an idea but worth checking.
1999: Freeserve 48K Dial-Up => 2005: Wanadoo 1 Meg BB => 2007: Orange 2 Meg BB => 2008: Orange 8 Meg LLU => 2010: Orange 16 Meg LLU => 2011: Orange 20 Meg WBC