Well i think i worked out what the problem was with my connection dropping.

Our Fax machine.

Even though it was plugged in to a filter it seemed to be disconnecting for some reason. We received a new computer desk and had to rearrange everything and decided to leave it unplugged and touch wood all seems okay so far.

Could be a faulty filter. I suggest using a good quality filter if you intend to connect the fax again, they really do make a difference.

http://www.adslnation.com/support/filters.php

The XF-1e or Excelus Z-420UK-A