Thank you all for setting my mind at rest.Since I got this computer I have had Free AG installed and the windows firewall enabled. I did look at wireshark but it seemed very technical and well above my head. Tommy45's suggestion about the "keep alive" feature seems to be the solution ... netstat -a only shows up things I would expect to see (screen dump below), so I can now set my mind at rest that computer isn't infected and not cranking up usage on the bandwidth meter
Microsoft Windows XP [Version 5.1.2600]
(C) Copyright 1985-2001 Microsoft Corp.
C:\Documents and Settings\Bob>netstat -a
Active Connections
Proto Local Address Foreign Address State
TCP julie-25bed0b66:epmap julie-25bed0b66:0 LISTENING
TCP julie-25bed0b66:microsoft-ds julie-25bed0b66:0 LISTENING
TCP julie-25bed0b66:2869 julie-25bed0b66:0 LISTENING
TCP julie-25bed0b66:1034 julie-25bed0b66:0 LISTENING
TCP julie-25bed0b66:1464 localhost:1465 ESTABLISHED
TCP julie-25bed0b66:1465 localhost:1464 ESTABLISHED
TCP julie-25bed0b66:1470 localhost:1471 ESTABLISHED
TCP julie-25bed0b66:1471 localhost:1470 ESTABLISHED
TCP julie-25bed0b66:5152 julie-25bed0b66:0 LISTENING
TCP julie-25bed0b66:5152 localhost:1957 CLOSE_WAIT
TCP julie-25bed0b66:netbios-ssn julie-25bed0b66:0 LISTENING
TCP julie-25bed0b66:1494 ip-70-38-25-72.static.privatedns.com:http CLOSE
_WAIT
TCP julie-25bed0b66:3846 forums.thinkbroadband.com:http TIME_WAIT
TCP julie-25bed0b66:3847 209.85.229.138:http TIME_WAIT
TCP julie-25bed0b66:3859
www.thinkbroadband.com:http TIME_WAIT
TCP julie-25bed0b66:3860
www.thinkbroadband.com:http TIME_WAIT
UDP julie-25bed0b66:microsoft-ds *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:isakmp *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:4500 *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:ntp *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:1053 *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:1900 *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:3916 *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:ntp *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:netbios-ns *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:netbios-dgm *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:1900 *:*
UDP julie-25bed0b66:3915 *:*
My thanks to you for your excellent and prompt sharing of knowledge. Much appreciated
Bob