The OP has agreed the supplied modem is Openreach property.
End of. He is not entitled to mess with it without their permission.
It is also specified in publicly available documents, which I have quoted, that it is the NTE/NTP. I think my comparable example of car fog lights covers the situation. He is not therefore entitled to replace it with anything else.
Many have replaced the firmware. Several have swapped the modem for VDSL2 routers. As has been said, unless anything anyone does can be reasonably shown to have damaged anything in the BT Group systems or equipment then they aren't going to be dragged off to the cells in the middle of the night.
There are definitely legally backed regulations about the specifications of and approval required for any equipment attached to a telephone socket. It is also a fact that by the time you have been out of your house for ten minutes, travelling to another location, you will have broken a myriad of laws, of which your ignorance "is no excuse".
The fact that we are not specifically advised of something obvious does not make it untrue.
Perhaps the local council should post warning notices on the inside of every property. Maybe you and the OP should start a Downing Street petition to have the matter clarified by all ISPs.
Anyone doubting that the general view that the Openreach modem should not be tampered with or replaced is correct is being unrealistic. Or deliberately mischievous.
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