Lets ignore the guff about what G.Fast cannot do - which is all based on assumptions that cannot yet be made - and focus on this part ...
Looking at the NZ experience the UK govt doesn't have to do much,
Your rose-tinted prose makes it look incredibly easy.
Unfortunately, it missed two incredibly difficult hurdles that the UK government will face: VM and the EU. And even Ofcom might throw itself into the problem.
The EU loves competition, but it has to be the right sort. Competing to tender on a single national infrastructure (even if done regionally) isn't enough - it loves infrastructure competition. Real, competing, separate physical networks. Try to do something that establishes one single network, and you might find a fight with the EU on your hands.
The EU doesn't like state aid either. Try to do something that establishes one single network, using any amount of state funds, and you might find an incredibly tough fight on your hands.
Leave the EU? Hmmm. We still want access to the EU market - and that will leave us tied to the same market-driven rules that apply now. Use of state aid in an unauthorised way will be the fastest way to disqualify an independent UK from trading.
These issues of competition and state aid take on an interesting turn when VM is already competitive with ultrafast speeds in over 50% of the market, and are currently investing significantly (for the first time in yonks) to extend that into the 60-65% area.
VM, in competition, won't like the prospect of a nationally-organised (and possibly state-funded) competitor, and will appeal through every court in the land and onwards into the EU. Hands will be tied. Progress will not be made.
And that, incidentally, is one key difference between the NZ and Aus models: NZ didn't have much of a functioning cable industry, while Australia did. NZ could convert from one monopoly infrastructure to another; Australia couldn't, and would need to replace all of them.
Ofcom regulates in the middle of this. It has recently swapped from the faux-competition offered by LLU, towards seeking a serious competitor to deliver fibre - without disturbing the commercial choices being made by both BT and VM. It didn't come close to suggesting either a NZ or Australian model ... and there's probably a reason for that.
The government, in the meantime, is skint. It doesn't want to pay for anything, and would far rather leave it to commercial entities to take the responsibility.
This particular government, running to 2020, can see 3 main strands to growing the infrastructure that are all also going to carry on running to 2020ish. Even if they had the will and the money, they likely couldn't achieve any more coverage growth than is already going to happen.
all it needs to do is make it inevitable that a FTTP network is going to happen, and then stand back and watch as BT suddenly embraces FTTP and trips over itself to stop itself from becoming irrelevant.
Isn't that what Ofcom is trying to do? Make an FTTP network inevitable through PIA?
Of course, Ofcom would be happiest if they brought in a third (quasi-nationwide) operator of fibre using PIA, but that BT stayed loyal to G.Fast. There might be room for three operators that way, each with separate USPs ... but BT tripping over itself to selectively deploy FTTP would quash that stone dead.
if on the other hand you are like me, on an FTTC cabinet with approx. 2km of copper cable run
Apologies to your sensitivities, but telecoms is a game of statistics (even in NZ), and you fall on the wrong side of them.
With a statement of "If you are like me ... with approx 2km of copper" you are talking to approximately 2% of the country. You are in the middle of the "hardest to reach".
In the NBN, that would leave you covered by satellite.
In New Zealand, you wouldn't be covered by their current UFB rollout (75% by 2019), or even the extended rollout (80% by 2023). In fact, you're right on the cusp of not even fitting into the "rural broadband initiative" for 5Mbps speed - which targets 90% of those not getting UFB. NZ's overall aim is 97.8% of the country ... and you'd be just outside that.
Do you think a UK state-sanctioned model would serve you better than these role models? Better than the model they've already chosen (90% target, then 95%, then not really any further)?
If your plans paid off, and the UK converted to a state-organised monopoly FTTP network, and chose to go beyond a 95% target, you could likely expect to be upgraded in 15-20 years - after the 95% have been reached.
I've never understood why rural fibre champions always seem to demand an FTTP-only solution for the entire country. It would solve their problem, sure, but not for a long, long time.