Going beyond discussing bidi vs pon optics for a moment....
I think they’re quite interesting examples that you cite. Both these nets have somewhat unique ‘environments’ in which they have built their networks. B4RN have a relatively small yet devoted user base of largely rural folks that either contribute their own labour and/or wayleave-free in-verge or land to the cause. Wightfibre similarly quite a rural place - therefore I would argue these aren’t your typical mass scale deployments. I would call these “green field” deployments, where cost per metre is generally quite low and there is more opportunity to have significantly higher fibre count in the ground with less penalty.
The design flexibility of PON is one of it’s biggest draws. The fact is that far less fibre and splicing is required for PON. This a critical consideration especially in dense urban or “brown field” deployments, where high fibre count means high ducts requirements. To try and offset this with PtP requires active hardware to be placed deeper into the network, closer to subscribers. Goes without saying that this has consequences not only for higher numbers of active devices, but also ongoing operational costs to maintain and provide power etc.
The design flexibility of PON makes it a good candidate for dovetailing into existing physical infrastructure, like Openreach PIA. Trying to “do” PtP if your wanting to leverage PIA instead of digging your own ducts from scratch bound be far more difficult proposition. I think this is why networks that are deploying in brown field are opting towards PON architectures.
The other aspect to consider is the so called “future proof” nature of PtP. I don’t think one could argue for that perspective as it’s pretty hard to deny that a dedicated strand(s) of glass to each subscriber is the gold standard of a fibre network. However I would say that technology moves fast and the familiar GPON standard has already been skipped by several forward looking alt nets who have adopted XGSPON which addresses bandwidth and symmetry.
Feels like a rerun of Betamax versus VHS!