I think your jump from 7100 to 8600 will actually be to do with BTs IPStream MAX product. Once it sees that your connection is stable it attempts to move the target noise margin. If you can stay synced with a lower figure for the signal to noise ration, meaning there's more notice, you get higher sync speeds. So that the speed doesn't jump up and down like a jo jo BT's kit will only make changes I think every three days, but now you're at the top of the scale so once Orange roll out some extra capacity you should see much better speeds.
If you're getting the same (slow) speed to that server I linked you there's likely no shaping going on. The server is in Florida so it will be slow. I couldn't set that set up on any UK servers though. Bandwidth in the UK is so expensive.
About the shaping some ISP do.. It used to be that if it was on a peer2peer port each packet would be prioritized lower than say email traffic. If you imagine a router at Oranges offices like a gate where only a cretin about of packets can make it through, basically web and email traffic is allowed to jump the queue and get through the gate..
People fooled that port based system easily so now some ISPs actually inspect the packet's contents. The machine doing this knows what a request for a web page looks like, and knows what the BitTorrent protocol looks like and prioritizes traffic appropriately.
If done correctly QoS or traffic shaping can improve the network for every one. The idea is that the ISP implements the shaping so it only effects people when there is more traffic that the network can bear. IE at peak times.
PlusNet were the first to go this route in the UK, and I was unfortunately one of their customers during that time. At first it was OK but then Plus saw that there was an opportunity for some money making and as the customer base grew they just didn't add any new bandwidth until the point that the traffic shaping was kicking in 24/7 and anything but "gold" traffic was next to useless.
This was after PlusNet's failed "bad boy pipe" experiment. Where all the users that used P2P were assigned to the same pipe and saturated the connection in one directly, making it entirely useless as all times of the day.
As always wikipedia has a lot on the subject:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traffic_shaping
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quality_of_service
Theres a lot of talk in the US right now about this, under the term "net neutrality". Big time backbone ISPs like AT&T want to charge the likes of Google to deliver their content at the same speed, if they don't pay they get shaped to an unspecified speed. Needless to say, only the backbone providers and the people they paid are happy about it..