You practice flying by yourself on an empty server.
Can't do that on PS3 it just sticks you in a game with other players
Only way is to take a heli when you see it, I'm getting better, I'm now carp at flying instead of completely carp, but anyone on the ground is still safe. Think I have about 4 kills. Everyone has to start somewhere and it's great when you get a chance to fly even if it's not for long.
Last night there were two really good rank 50 pilots flying around the ship map, no way to shoot them down as they destroyed the anti-aircraft guns within sec's of someone sitting on them, not that the anti-aircraft guns are much good, couldn't capture any flags and were just being constantly base raped, it got so bad everyone left.
I hope in BF3 the balance is restored.