FTTP is fibre to the premises and is pretty rare at the moment. We have it here in Milton Keynes but only on 1 exchange because it is one of the trial areas.
Most places are having FTTC rolled out, fibre to the cabinet. The speed you get is related to how close you are to your street cabinet. If it was due to be rolled out it would state the date and estimated speed on that checker, below the other speeds you read.
If it wasn't on the other list you saw on the Aquiss website either, then unfortunately you probably aren't on the current rollout phase. You could try the SamKnows website in the FTTx section. That site tells you when your exchange is due to be enabled for fibre. The cabinets would come after that date. Even then they are not enabling all the cabinets from enabled exchanges. It's a bit of a lottery to be fair.
Luckily you have a reasonably decent connection anyway.
T2D, do you have your PS3 in the DMZ of your router mate?
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Knowing how it works is completely different to understanding how it works.
Live BQM
FTTC - Aquiss Business 45
37.7Mbps Downstream
8.45Mbps Upstream
7ms Ping