Have only witnessed screenshots of BF3 beta on consoles and graphically, as far as static images go, it's looks fine to me. I don't about the fancy lighting and stuff and I realise there are some major bugs - screen tearing, texture problems etcetera reported but I'd say people were maybe being a little too harsh, no?
The Metro map isn't the prettiest map and I'm not a fan of the stye of art - kinda very scorched, very hot summer's day with extreme contrast in the outdoor lighting (to my eyes it looks ugly). But as a map it works excellently imo. I'm really enjoying it and a lot more so the more I got into it and learned the map. Until you know where all the choke points are it's quite confusing but when it starts to come together, wow. You are in for a treat and it's only set to get better once we get the in game friend thing and voice chat and all that malarkey going.
From the little I've read about problems on the consoles I think DICE/EA have a serious battle on their hands to optimise the game for release. People are expecting better textures in the main so perhaps they should scale back the number of players further or take out some of the destructibility? They need to do something if the framerate is already stuck at 30FPS.
Yeah, I was reading about the PC version too and how later on, when 64 player maps with vehicles (like the Caspian Border) one come out, then we will be in trouble. So far my computer is running the game okay at Ultra settings (1920 x 1200) with AA turned off and a few other things lowered. I know it's going to be killed when the body count goes up, map size increased and vehicles are introduced. Plus, reports are that DICE have held off on unleashing full graphical potential on the PC with Ultra settings just being High or so they say. I think there is plenty of room for improvement, even on the PC, for graphics textures to look better but I would not be too disappointed if they remained at this level. When BF2 came out, DICE played it very safe and didn't push the boundaries at all. It was quite disappointing actually but didn't detract too much from the game. Gameplay is key after all.
You really should give BF3 a better chance. Yes, it is a different style of play to what you are used to if COD and CSS type quick shooters are what you're used to. It isn't radically different but does require some basic tactics for holding back a bit more rather than going Rambo (solo) as you'll just be gunned down all the time when you run into a bunch of enemy players all huddled together at one of those choke points I mentioned.
Well, it's up to you really. Probably wouldn't hurt ya too much to download it for the PS3 and try again. It took me the best part of a week (10 hours) of play to get the hang of the map and gameplay. I tend to be too gung ho and get kamikazeed all the time. It's really worth investing the effort to learn this game, trust me. It's so rewarding once you get into it a bit more. I'm starting to feel like gaming again - it has a way of making you hungry for more.