Maybe it's the type of modem, have you tried other manufacturers? Different ones suit different lines.
You are having a laugh, aren't you? As per previous posts, (but with a little more detail).... this modem is ASUS ............. previous one was a D-Link ............... before that was the rubbish, re-badged freebie Thomson clone supplied by the ISP that I only took in case I had problems and to ensure they couldn't blame it on my kit.
As for those who have had something useful to offer, please accept my thanks.
The monitoring front is a dead duck. I've been watching and refreshing the stats when I've forced a DSL drop by downloading big files and as I keep saying.... the numbers don't change. I understand that all of the supplementary logging programs have a sample interval longer than my monitoring has been.
As for neighbours - next door has the same issue (different ISP) and logs similar numbers. His drops do not coincide with mine. He's also had multiple modems, one a Zyxel, one a Netgear. Across the cul-de-sac they complain of episodes of dropped pages.
The TPM didn't work either. Drops continued throughout the weekend, including several times during the early hours when all but the modem was idle and even my server was on power saving shutdown.
As I understand it after a lot of research, a downstream attenuation of 60dB represents an incompetent line. Mine is 57.5dB and should be about 40dB for the line length. By the same token, my downstream power is ridiculous at 18dBm. The target range is +/- 5dB and up to 10-12db is the limit of acceptability. So with numbers like these trying to eliminate the possibility of a spike from the thermostat on my fridge (or someone else's) is a bit of a nonsense.
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