I'm deeply indebted for all the input so far, particularly Roberto's and I've put some more time into it in the last couple of days. So in no particular order:
1. I'm still struggling to get anything from RouterStats-Lite. The nearest router to mine on the list is ASUS DSL N55U (mine is a 66) so I've tried that and confirmed that the stats page address is the same. I've also tried the other option for an owner setup and made sure I've put all the info in. In both cases it is definitely finding the modem, because if I leave it at the default 192.168.1.1 it says it can't find it, whereas when I set to 192.168.1.254 it seems happy. But no logging numbers at all, SNR is 0 and download is 3kb. Yes, I have pressed start and yes, Telnet is enabled.
I've run it with and also without the log page up on a separate screen just in case the modem doesn't like to have two clients at once.
Where am I going wrong?
2. Most of the numbers I've been quoting are from the router because they are easy to get instantaneously but I also have them provided by my ISP whenever they run a diagnostic and the numbers are pretty consistent between theirs and mine. The ISP has wound the SNRM up and down several times and as would be expected, lower numbers give me faster speed, higher numbers make it a bit more stable but I still get drops. I had one engineer who said I should ask my ISP to cap my speed at 2Mb and all will be well. They could only offer 0.5Mb as a firm cap but even this would be no use because it falls over in the middle of the night when there is no traffic and even my server is in power save mode.
3. I get two flavours of a failure, both of which have the same effect on my connection. The first is when the modem says "DSL is down, WAN link is down". It then jumps through all the hoops, "LCP can come up" etc. and sometimes it gets back immediately, sometimes it has multiple attempts. Eventually I get "DSL is up", it tries again and in the end I see "Wan Connection: WAN Link is up" and "WAN connection was restored" followed by a connection time which might be a couple of minutes or might be several hours.
The second flavour is when it just says "WAN Connection: Failed to connect with some issues" which leads to "modem hangup" and then on to "WAN Connection: WAN was restored". These are the ones that I am (perhaps wrongly) describing as a loss of sync. I believe my ISP logs them as session failures in the same way as a full blown DSL loss.
4. I'm rebooting the modem as little as I possibly can. In the last set of data my ISP sent me they logged 133 drops in 72 hours, 2 of which were at my end. One was a switch off to put a new socket on the wall elsewhere on the same ring main and the other was when the modem was so confused by about a dozen drops in 2 hours that I couldn't log in so a hard reboot was called for. As I type, my uptime is 7 days, 5 hours 18 minutes and my DSL connection time is 2 hours 19 minutes. A good day, but it will get worse when the sun goes down.
5. Yes, I know that having the fastest fibre exchange in the area is irrelevant. It is pretty galling though. Worse, because I have an EO line, when I get so-called superfast it will be with a cabinet outside the exchange and still the same bit of scraggy aluminium all the way? Is there a replacement policy?
6. Speaking of aluminium, I can only report what an engineer told me when he had all the drawings up on his laptop to show me the route. They were all snaps of good old fashioned hand drawings circa 1995, four years before the Supertram went in. If anyone has access to my local line drawings I'd jump at the chance to speak to you directly but in the mean time, let's assume its Al and does this make any difference to what BT Openreach SHOULD do about it?
7. I'm not alone! There was an engineer in an underground DP around the corner for 2 hours yesterday so someone slightly further downstream than me is probably getting hassle too.
8. My info about acceptable SNR, attenuation and power came from here
http://www.screwloose.com.au/hosted-services/broadba... and here
http://www.dslreports.com/faq/5862 plus half a dozen similar sites. Hence my belief that high SNR at the modem is good, 60dB attenuation is incompetent and that my downstream power is way, way outside the norm.
Therefore, I'm much obliged for Roberto's link, I've read it will continue to re-read it. The practical fact is that even with the SNR wound out to very good numbers by my ISP and speed dropped as a consequence the blimmin' line still continues to fall over in use and when idle.
9. Yes, I have Sky and so does at least one neighbour. Mine is quite some distance from the modem, fed by high grade PF 100 cable that I routed myself and fed from a professional grade 5x12 multiswitch and a proper quattro LNB on a big dish I erected. It's not one of those horrible Sky dishes with a cheap quad LNB and soggy crimped terminals just begging for a few inches of self amalgamating tape. I distribute its HDMI output to four locations around the house over Cat 6 cable completely separate to my network. Yes, I wondered what you're thinking as well so I turned the Sky box off for a day and it made not a blind bit of difference. By the way, The 3Mp and 5Mp IP CCTV cameras are also on a completely separate network which only connects to PCs using separate NICs.
(I know I said assume I'm as dumb as a post, but actually, I'm not behind the door, as my old man used to say. I just don't know enough to bottom this problem)
Summary
I'd love to get RSL working and provide some numbers if someone can guide me on the path to enlightenment. Meanwhile I'll try the trick of logging numbers then rebooting and re-logging as requested and report back after the weekend. First though, I'm going to speak to PlusNet to see whet their next move is.
And if anyone could humour me for a while and just assume that it's not local interference or my Sky box or my modem and that I'm not making all this up, is there any advice on what BT Openreach SHOULD be doing next, then what after that and finally to sort it?
p.s. It took me so long to type this it went down again. My DSL uptime is now 12 minutes.
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