there are at least two or three other installations that I look after....two VM and one TalkTalk, plus my home BB service (which is VM) all of which have had the same public IP address for yonks. Given that these are all in the same town, would the VM ones all terminate at the same VM BRAS?
Sorry, are we talking about Vodafone, or Virgin Media?
Are these all FTTC circuits, or FTTP, or some mixture?
You'd want to check whether the VDSL link stays up (the PPPoE session is terminated), or if the VDSL link itself goes down, which might be possible to see in router logs.
FTTC lines are likely to be interrupted for random reasons, including someone
turning on their TV. They will be on different cabinets or different line cards in the same cabinet, and will be on different copper pairs, so basically nothing can be inferred about the reliability of one circuit from the others. In any case, an FTTC line which only reconnects twice a month is pretty good.
Such problems are very unlikely with FTTP. Light is light, and immune to EMI.