So dare I summarize with advanced apologies for any requirements I did not originally state
1/ Separate 4G dialler that would require two sims...... That's the original problem two sims!
2/ There is a router with a send SMS from pin waggle.... Its fantastically expensive, circa £570
3/ There is an alarm system with IP alarms......... Its a bit expensive (~£200) and requires smartphones (no SMS)
4/ The existing routers firmware could be replaced..... Unfortunately OpenWrt doesn't support router
5/ Use Telnet interface of existing router............ No dialler commands in Telnet interface
6/ Spoof HTML interface......... Uses encrypted javascript, to difficult
7/ DIY router based on SBC + 4G modem....... Complex project, estimate ~£150+
8/ SMS API provider with small SBC to generate text......... Cheap but relies on unreliable? external server
Looks like 2 sims and simple 4G dialler (~£100)!! or take a punt on number 8 for £25 it seems.
Glossary :
SBC .... Single Board Computer
API ..... Application Programming Interface
HTML.... Gunk that makes web pages!
No working ADSL or VDSL, hello 4G

Edited by fourtytwo (Thu 14-Sep-23 18:50:51)