I solved my XP/Vista networking problem
From an idea I had for another Windows thread here, I changed my Win user name on XP back to the same as Vista. Now Vista can see XP over network & v.v.
I think I once changed it to be diff for some reason I've yet to rediscover.
I thought Vista networking had a setting "Password Protection Sharing" OFF to allow diff user names. I had it OFF all the time but not until I changed the names to be the same did it work

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1999: Freeserve 48K Dial-Up => 2005: Wanadoo 1 Meg BB => 2007: Orange 2 Meg BB => 2008: Orange 8 Meg LLU => 2010: Orange 16 Meg LLU => 2011: Orange 19 Meg WBC