That is an amazingly good BQM compared to many for Virgin Media in mainland UK. I don't know about Northern Ireland.
Of course we mostly see complaints, not compliments.
Re your worry about the UK server for BQM, that will mainly affect the base-level green part, which to some degree reflects the distance from the server and the links from the international peering exchanges in London. (I'm assuming your VM servers are in the Republic, not in the UK).
I have to pack and things to go away for a few days early tomorrow, so haven't time to search for the many complaints over here about VM high latencies.
Try the Search option in the top menu, looking
in all forums for VM BQM , choosing the "and" option. Set it to search for at least 6 months. Maybe a year.
Also try various similar search terms if not much shows up with my suggestion.
For an example,
see this thread. That was one of many that came up when I searched in the just BQM forum for latency newer than one year.
Connections: OnePlus 8 Pro, 4G max 165Mbps down, 24Mbps up on Three Mobile, and B311 4G router, tbb tests normally 35-45Mpbs down, 65Mbps off-peak, 9-24 up.