So, either reboot and see what happens or start deleting stuff and risk borking windows when it may not even be doing the win 10 update anyway.
I decided to see what happened, so clicked to Restart. Very weird from then on.
First it gave me a previously never seen message about some processes running, so wait. Then it continued with the "Restarting" blue screen.
Next the screen went blank, as normal, followed by the ASUS splash page coming up. That hung around for a bit, then I got the stage 1 desktop screen with the shortcuts and so on, plus most of the Taskbar stuff. At this point the disc drive was going like the clappers,
and the clock in the System Tray stopped. Netmeter window had come up, but zilch happening in it.
Cursor arrow very occasionally did the rotating circle, and when moved to the taskbar immediately circled. Nothing clickable.
That stayed the same for around 7 minutes, with a couple of blankings and reinstatements of the entire taskbar!
Ultimately refreshed the desktop a couple of times and now seems to be normal.
Nothing appears to have altered in the $Windows.~BT directory, including the timestamps.
The squashed rectangles Get Win10 icon has re-appeared amongst the hidden ones!
A totally strange episode, taking about 20 minutes from clicking the "Restart to complete the install".
Thanks to all for their suggestions. At least I can turn the darn thing off now without worrying about what will happen when I turn it on

. Or can I !?!!

. We shall see.
The indispensable man or woman passes from the scene, and what happens next is more or less the same thing as was happening before.
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