Our village has recently been enabled with a full FTTP network, and I am interested in having Zen provide a FTTP connection to my home. I have been with Zen FTTC ever since it was available, with very good service.
Whilst I am conversant with FTTC and VDSL technology, I would not pretend that I understand very much about what is needed for FTTP.
I recently chatted to Zen Tech Support about hardware options... Given that the ONT is effectively the modem, my simple brain thought that I could continue to use my Netgear D6400 router and EX7000 WiFi extender. However, Zen Tech Support insisted that the supplied FRITZ!Box 7350 router must be used for FTTP to work correctly. I don't understand why - and I was considering improving my WiFi router to a WiFi 6 unit from e.g. Asus or other manufacturer.
I smell a rat... Whilst I fully understand that Zen would prefer me to use their supplied router, to make tech support easier - and I've always kept my supplied VDSL router in case of technical problems with my current FTTC service - I don't see any reason why I can't do similar with a router for FTTP?
Any constructive comments/advice gratefully received 
In a word, no, you can use any router you want provided it has a WAN port.
The only complication can be is of you've ordered digital voice from them (the Fritzbox 7530 has a buolt in DECT base for cordless and a phone port so you can plug your existing phone in should you wish but I think you can get hold of the server details (I have Zen FTTP and am using the Fritzbox but previously used an olld Netgear on my connection which I dithced when it went out of support and because I couldn't get IPv6 to work on it.
Not gone down the digital voice route yet.
To be fair to Zen Tech Support (whom I've always found to be good) they are likely to be less keen to advise on routers not supplied by them as a setting they might advise the customer to change may have an inforseen impact on the customer and lead to customer complaints like 'I was told to do X or Y and now little tarquin can't play Call of Duty/Fortnite/FIFA!
The Fritzbox also has autoconfiguration ability so although it's not locked down, if you plug it in out of the box and leave it for 5-10 minutes connected to an active Zen connection, it'll configure itself with your connection details, also makes diagnostics easier.
I'm afraid I can sympathise with the mindset of being reluctant to touch anything you aren't 100% familiar with as while I don't work for an ISP, I do work within a Service Desk role for a large organisation.
At the beginning of the first lockdown, people were just told to go home, most of the users had desktops so while we tried to get hold of laptops, get them imaged and sent out we were guiding them through installing a VPN client on their home systems, logging in and connecting to thjeir desktops.
We found a couple of security products that, despite our efforts, refused to allow the connections, myself and colleagues also spent some of our own time trying to get hold of trial versions to test.
As an immediate but not ideal fix we'd ask the end user to disable the product and use the inbuilt windows defender/firewall or talk to the security software vendor, for a few option one wasn;t welcomed so we ended up directing them to support for the troublesome products.
Someone also went and bought a machine and one of my less experienced colleages, trying to be helpful, tried to apply domain group policy to it, not noticing it wasn't one of ours, bearing in mind this was Windows home editoon installed by an OEM, it didn't work well and I had to sit through a factory reset with an angry end user.
So I can see their point a bit
Virgin (ADSL) => Namesco => Newnet => O2 => Plusnet => Zen => Newnet => Zen => Freeola => Vivaciti (using O2 Wholesale DSL) => Xilo (C&W Wholesale) => Xilo (O2 Wholesale) => Xilo (TT Wholesale due to O2 Wholesale closure) => Zen LLU =>> ZeN FTTP (Openreach 300 Mbps down, 47 Mbps up)
Router: Fritzbox 7530
Note: I don't lay turf for anyone. astro or otherwise, all views and opinions expressed are my own based on experience.