The WAN side has a red light and they told me that it will become green when I configure which ever router I configure to work with it but then they won’t tell me any more than that.
That believe that is incorrect and the indicator on the ADVA NTE merely shows if the physical interface is operational, regardless of the state of the IP configuration.
If the ADVA is expecting an SFP rather than copper interface, the SFPs are the same type and connected with an appropriate fibre patch cable with crossover you may have to force the UDM port to gigabit under Devices > UDM Pro > Ports > Configure Interfaces and set WAN2 to 1Gbps FDX. If you hover over the representation of the port in the UI a pop-up should show various information including 'Status 1,000FDX', and if the SFP supports DOM/DDM additional information such as the SFP vendor, serial number, part number, revision, compliance (type of interface), supply voltage & current, temperature and most usefully output and input power of the optical ports.
Once the physical link is up, configure the WAN interface. If using the 'new' user interface under Settings > Internet you likely have to use 'Add Secondary Internet Connection' even though it is your only one, if using the 'old' / legacy user interface under Settings > Networks create a new WAN network for WAN2 (the SFP port). Then set the IPv4 connection type to Static IP, configure the IP address, subnet mask and gateway (labelled Router in the UI), if you have also been provided with a VLAN ID tick the box and enter the number.