When I play with friends and we can communicate and help each other, we pretty much finish top every time.
IF you all fall within that correct latency band.
I understand the complexities in getting the correct approach in conquest and how fruitful teamwork can be. But it is very difficult to explain the frustrations of playing against the server settings, when everybody thinks they have experienced it. They haven't. You haven't or you would understand how comments like that one are incomprehensible to players suffering my issues.
Imagine coming to my pad with your box, hooking it up to my router, playing a private match and continually beating me by a 10% kill margin. You can safely say you are a slightly better player than me on any given day.
Then when you can't be bothered to leave the house and we play a private match over the Internet, I beat you 64 - 0. Then we move onto a public server and everybody beats you 64 - 0.
It's controller snapping stuff and I have done so...twice.