In simple terms, everything over the Internet (or any network) is a two way conversation.
Sort of
"Can I have that?"
"Here you are"
"Got it O.K."
or variations on this.
The requests and confirmations tend to be very small.
The data requested tends to be quite large.
So this is the basis for the more technical descriptions using acronyms and specialist tems for the different requests and responses.
HTH
Oh, and the tests you have described so far seem to indicate a local problem with your wireless connection as the wired connection still seems to perform as expected.
As you work O.K. with next door's router the main suspect is your router.
Causes could be a router hardware fault, or interference from another wireless source.
You say that you can easily see next door's router from your house but not vice versa.
This seems to suggest that your wireless router has a poorer signal and/or is suffering more interference.
The best way to progress is to swap around the channel your router uses (try all the numbers) just to confirm it isn't interference or you can't avoid the interference. If this doesn't help, borrow another router or get a replacement.
Why is download O.K. but upload not?
No real idea, apart from a possible fault in the radio receiver on your router where it can receive the small messages O.K. (request and response) from your PC for downloads but tends to fail when receiving larger data messages from your PC destined for uploads.
I suggest the receiver because the transmitter seems to be sending the larger data blocks O.K.
Cheers
Dave R
Edited by deleted (Wed 29-Aug-12 11:10:02)