A misuderstanding of your OP. Again apologies. But, as I mentioned elsewhere, IMAP lets you do this without any complications.
I'm glad it was a misunderstanding - I was beginning to think that the Thought Police were going to descend on me in droves!!!
To be honest, I don't understand IMAP!!
I've heard of it, but whenever I've tried to investigate it, I've been lost by the Jargon!
Basically the method that I've proposed I've used for years, & it works very well (using Thunderbird) - just can't figure out to configure Windows Live!!
However, if you can point me to something sensible so that I can configure something under IMAP, then that would be excellent!!